What causes a 'relaying denied' error when sending emails, and how can I diagnose the issue?
Matthew Whittaker
Co-founder & CTO, Suped
Published 23 May 2025
Updated 17 Aug 2025
9 min read
Encountering a 'relaying denied' error can be frustrating when you're trying to send emails. This common bounce message indicates that the email server you're attempting to send through, or the recipient's server, has refused to process your email for relaying. Essentially, it means the server isn't permitting the message to pass through to its final destination.
This error typically occurs when an email server detects that an unauthorized user or system is trying to use it to send an email. It's a security measure designed to prevent spam and unauthorized usage of mail servers, often referred to as open relay abuses. However, it can also stem from legitimate senders due to misconfigurations on either the sender's side, the sending mail server, or even the recipient's server.
Understanding the root cause is crucial for resolving the issue and ensuring your emails reach their intended recipients. We'll explore the common reasons behind this error and provide practical steps to diagnose and fix it.
Understanding email relaying and 'relaying denied'
Email relaying is the process by which an email server accepts an email from a sender and then forwards, or relays, it to another mail server for ultimate delivery to the recipient. This is a fundamental part of how email works. A 'relaying denied' error means a server has refused to perform this relay function for a specific email. The most common form of this error is often seen as SMTP 550 errors.
Common Relaying Denied Error Message
550 5.7.1 relaying denied
Such errors arise because mail servers are configured to prevent open relays, which are vulnerable to spammers. An open relay allows anyone to send email through it, typically leading to the server being blacklisted (or blocklisted) and its emails being rejected or sent to spam folders. Therefore, legitimate servers require authentication or specific IP address authorization to relay mail.
When you encounter a 'relaying denied' message, it means the server you're connecting to doesn't recognize your credentials or IP address as authorized to send mail through it, or it doesn't consider itself the final destination for the email, and you're not allowed to use it for relaying to external domains. This is often the case when a mail server believes it's not the MX for the domain you're trying to send to, or that you're attempting to use it as a smart host without permission.
Common causes of 'relaying denied' errors
There are several reasons why a server might deny relaying. Understanding these causes is the first step toward effective diagnosis.
Lack of authentication: This is the most common cause. Your email client (e.g., Outlook, Thunderbird) might not be configured to authenticate with the outgoing mail server (SMTP server), or the authentication credentials (username and password) might be incorrect. Servers require SMTP authentication to ensure only authorized users send emails.
Incorrect SMTP server settings: You might be using the wrong SMTP server address or port, or an incorrect security protocol (SSL/TLS). Most ISPs block port 25, requiring users to use alternative ports like 465 (SSL) or 587 (TLS).
IP address not authorized: Some mail servers are configured to allow relaying only from specific, whitelisted IP addresses. If your sending IP address isn't on this list, or is on a public blocklist, relaying will be denied. This can also be an issue if your IP address is blacklisted.
Recipient server misconfiguration or DNS issues: Less common but possible, the recipient's mail server itself might be misconfigured, leading it to reject legitimate relays. This can involve broken DNS records or a server thinking it's not the final destination for mail, leading to a 'relay access denied' bounce (a type of blacklisting). You might see errors like '550 5.7.1 Unable to Relay'.
Misconfigurations can often result in bounce messages, such as the 550 5.4.1 Recipient address rejected error, if the server is not correctly set up to handle incoming mail for its own domain.
Diagnosing the 'relaying denied' error
Diagnosing a 'relaying denied' error requires a systematic approach. Here's how to troubleshoot the issue:
Examine the bounce message: The full bounce message (also known as a Non-Delivery Report or NDR) often contains specific SMTP error codes (e.g., 550 5.7.1) and descriptions that can pinpoint the problem. Look for keywords like 'authentication required', 'relay access denied', or 'unauthorized relay'.
Check email client settings: Verify your outgoing mail server (SMTP) settings. Ensure that SMTP authentication is enabled and that your username and password are correct. Confirm the correct port (usually 587 or 465) and encryption method (TLS/SSL) are selected.
Test network connectivity: Sometimes, firewalls or network issues can prevent your client from connecting to the SMTP server, leading to errors like 'connection refused'. Confirm you can reach your SMTP server on the correct port.Troubleshooting network errors can provide insights.
Investigate recipient domain DNS and MX records: If the problem appears to be with the recipient's server, use a DNS lookup tool to check their MX (Mail Exchange) records. Verify that they are correctly configured and point to an active mail server. Misconfigured MX records can lead to servers believing they are not the final destination, thus denying relay.
In some cases, the problem might indicate that the destination domain is inactive or experiencing service migration issues, leading to a permanent failure. This requires further investigation, sometimes using tools like `swaks` for manual SMTP conversation to get more detailed error messages.
Best practices for diagnostics
When diagnosing email issues, consider checking both your sending infrastructure and the recipient's domain. Tools that allow you to conduct a comprehensive email deliverability test are invaluable. Always start by thoroughly reviewing the bounce message for any specific error codes or explanations.
Preventing and resolving 'relaying denied' errors
Once you've diagnosed the cause, resolving a 'relaying denied' error usually involves adjusting settings or addressing underlying issues. Here's how to prevent and resolve these errors:
Enable SMTP authentication: Ensure your email client is configured to authenticate with your outgoing SMTP server using your full email address as the username and the correct password. Most email providers require this for security.
Use the correct SMTP server and port: Confirm you are using the SMTP server address provided by your email service provider. Standard ports are 587 (TLS/STARTTLS) and 465 (SSL). Avoid port 25 for outgoing mail unless explicitly instructed by your provider, as it's often blocked by ISPs.
Whitelisted IP addresses: If you're managing your own mail server, ensure that any IP addresses allowed to relay through it are explicitly authorized. Implement strong authentication methods rather than relying solely on IP whitelisting to prevent open relay vulnerabilities.
For issues related to the recipient's server, there might be little you can do directly other than contacting the recipient or their email administrator. However, ensuring your own domain's email authentication records (like SPF, DKIM, and DMARC) are correctly set up can prevent your emails from being mistaken for spam or unauthorized relays by other servers. Incorrect or missing records can lead to emails going to spam instead of the inbox.
Common causes
No SMTP authentication: The email client fails to provide credentials to the outgoing server.
Incorrect server details: Wrong SMTP address, port, or encryption method used.
IP not whitelisted or blocklisted: Sending IP is not authorized by the server or is on a blacklist (blocklist).
Recipient domain issues: Misconfigured MX records or server problems on the recipient's side.
Solutions
Enable SMTP authentication: Configure your email client with correct credentials.
Verify server settings: Double-check the SMTP server, port, and encryption details.
Contact recipient admin: Reach out to their support for misconfigured servers.
Views from the trenches
Best practices
Always use authenticated SMTP when sending emails to ensure your server trusts your connection.
Regularly verify your SMTP settings, including server address, port, and encryption type, to prevent misconfigurations.
Monitor your domain and IP reputation using blocklist monitoring tools to proactively identify issues.
Common pitfalls
Forgetting to enable SMTP authentication in your email client or mail server setup.
Using an outdated or incorrect SMTP port, especially port 25 for outgoing mail.
Not regularly checking bounce messages for specific error codes that can point to the issue.
Expert tips
Perform a manual MX record lookup and test delivery to each entry using tools like `swaks` for granular insights into server responses.
For persistent issues, consider consulting your email service provider or IT administrator for server-side checks and configurations.
Remember that sometimes the issue isn't about spam from your end, but a misconfiguration or service migration problem on the recipient's domain.
Expert view
Emailkarma from Email Geeks says the server receiving the mail might not believe it's the MX for the domain, causing it to think you're trying to use it as a smart host.
2024-06-20 - Email Geeks
Marketer view
Wise_laura from Email Geeks says a domain could be suspended for sending cold email or spam, which can lead to these types of relaying errors.
2024-06-20 - Email Geeks
Key takeaways
A 'relaying denied' error can seem intimidating, but it's typically a clear signal that something needs attention in your email configuration or, occasionally, on the recipient's side. The core of the problem often lies in unauthorized access attempts or misconfigured mail server settings.
By systematically checking your email client's SMTP settings for proper authentication, verifying server addresses and ports, and occasionally delving into DNS records for the recipient domain, you can effectively diagnose the cause.
Resolving these errors is often straightforward, involving enabling authentication, correcting server details, or addressing IP blocklist (or blacklist) issues. Ensuring your email setup adheres to best practices not only fixes immediate problems but also contributes to better email deliverability in the long run. Keep your authentication strong and your configurations accurate to keep your emails flowing freely.
If you continue to face challenges, remember that continuous monitoring and expert insight can provide the clarity needed to ensure your email program runs smoothly.